Primary Identity Approach for Healing DID

 

Primary Identity Approach by Diane Hawkins

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Primary Identity Approach
for Healing DID

After decades of personal experience with DID and ritual abuse, Tom and Diane Hawkins developed the Primary Identity Approach for resolving the dissociative dynamics of Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). This approach recognizes the difference between the primary identities, who normally live life but were overwhelmed and separated from awareness of the trauma, and the alter-identities formed to handle the trauma.

It also recognizes the causative dynamic of dissociation as the intolerable psychological conflict that an overwhelming trauma event causes for the survivor. In a nutshell, if these conflicts can be identified and resolved within the primary identities, the memories of the traumatic events giving rise to them lose their overwhelming nature, and the dissociated alters formed to cope with them are no longer needed. As a result, all of the alter-identities formed to manage each conflict receive healing at the same time, often leading to spontaneous integration. This makes the healing process for Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) much more efficient than the traditional alter-centered approach, which focuses on the pain of the alters but ignores the overwhelmed primary identities, where the intolerable conflict is rooted.

When the Original Self, who has the greatest capacity for living life but who is often removed from it for safety, is able to own the person’s entire history without overwhelm, the person will integrate fully and live as the single identity that God originally designed. This is the ultimate goal.

RCM has many resources designed to help survivors reach this goal. Most helpful is A Survivor’s Workbook: Applying the Primary Identity Process to the Healing of DID.

For more information see The Value of Distinguishing Primary Identities and Alter-Identities article by Diane Hawkins.


Note to Survivors:

If you are a ritual abuse survivor or experiencing significant spiritual bondage, you may want to pray  our “Binding and Separating Prayer” found here before watching these videos.

If you are unstable or prone to being triggered easily, you may want to have someone with you as you listen to these videos the first time at least. If you do become triggered or overwhelmed, please stop the video, step away, and ground yourself in your present surroundings. Name the things around you. Touch something soft and something hard and note how they feel different. Call your pet to you. Think of someone who is dear to you. Call a friend or support person, if necessary.

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